You are not obligated to have sex with someone because they are nice to you. I had to get to that moment after ending a situation with someone who believed the opposite. I knew it was wrong, I didn’t feel right having sex with them and my body would shut down in the beginning stages of it. They didn’t make me feel completely comfortable but because I didn’t want them to be mad at me, I did it and I felt horrible afterwards. It’s been almost one year since the last time I’ve had sex and to be honest, I don’t miss it. I don’t miss having bad sex. I only hope that if I do get involved with someone, I hope they are understanding and respectful of my feelings and body.