I’m involved with someone at the moment and truthfully, I’m scared. He’s a sweet guy and I appreciate him for being patient with me. I hope he stays that way because being with someone who has suffered from a narcissistic ex has to have patience. I get a little nervous when we talk because I’m looking for the bottom to fall out. Is he just with me for sex? Is he with me to make himself look better to his friends? Side note: I’m a little older than him.